What Is It?
The purpose of cousin baiting is to attract research cousins. You're looking for people that have information on your genealogy and are willing to share.
There are two separate issues here.
- They need to have information.
- They have to be willing to share.
Deer baiting works by putting out food to attract the deer (for example, you put corn in front of your deer stand, it's illegal so let's move on before I find myself in another controversy I'm not interested in). With cousin baiting, you put out what will attract research cousins, your research.
Obviously, you aren't posting your research in front of your house---most likely online. To bait dear, you "catch" them when you see them. How will you "catch" your research cousins online?
The answer is you have to get them to contact you. One way is on a query system where you are supposed to say "I'm looking for [descriptive details]. Contact me." Query systems used to be queries printed in journals and newsletters. They went digital on message boards and websites for groups (like local genealogy societies or groups about a genealogy topic). Many of these don't show up in an Internet search and there aren't as many as there used to be.
A better (i.e. more effective) way is to put out your research as the bait rather than just putting out a query. A query is like trying to attract animals with a mating call. It doesn't attract all of them. Research is like using food, everyone has to eat (all genealogists want information).
Here's the "finesse" of cousin baiting. You don't put out everything. If you put everything you have out there, cousins have no reason to contact you. They can simply take what they want.
I want to give you a first-hand account of how this worked for me because it was so effective. I did this with my personal research years ago (before I was a professional genealogist and when we still had to use RootsWeb WorldConnect to put trees online---or create our own websites).
I put some information on my website. I wasn't intentionally cousin baiting. It was hard to put up information back then. I would get a decent number of people asking about my information but they didn't have information that helped me. I also quickly discovered I was the expert (at least of those researchers online) in the lines I was interested in. I was just spending time having to email my information and not really getting new information in return.
When I was in college (and finally had high-speed Internet), I simplified. I put "everything" online (not all my research but family group sheets and public trees for the lines I had been sharing).
I didn't want people emailing me unless they had a question. It worked, I stopped having cousins contact me.
That is how NOT to bait cousins. Luckily, that was my intention.
If you want to "share," as in a two-way transaction, this is not the way to do it. I also mention this so you realize cousin baiting has a specific goal. It isn't another word for sharing what you have. It's about two-way sharing.
Now you know what cousin baiting is.
Should you do it?
It is totally up to you. There may be many reasons you might want to try cousin baiting.
You need to identify your specific reason(s) and design your strategy based on that reason.
What are some reasons?
- Find others who may have done more research on a specific line.
- Find others who have personal knowledge about a person, event, or topic.
- Find others for research companionship (cousins to share the research work with).
- Find other who have NOT done research and may be "untainted" by faulty research.
- Find a specific document or photo.
- Find known cousins who have DNA tested.
- Find known cousins who would be willing to take a DNA test.
Once you identify your exact reason for cousin baiting (why and in which branch of your family), you can decide how to do the cousin baiting.
Popular options include:
- Use message boards
- Create online (public) trees
- Write a blog or webpage/site
The New Cousin Baiting: For DNA TestingIf you are looking for "cousins" for the purpose of DNA testing, you may need to try something different.
Traditionally, cousin baiting was looking for other genealogy researchers. At a stretch, you were looking for someone with enough interest to find your "bait" and tell you about their great-aunt with the family Bible.
DNA has changed a lot in the genealogy world and that includes the scope of cousin baiting. You may have identified specific people you want tested, but you don't have contact information for them (this could include being unable to identify children or grandchildren of someone by name, you just know they had children and/or grandchildren).
This type of need is something usually addressed as a DNA topic (and there is information online). I'm not going to try and cover it under general cousin baiting but if that's your goal, check out genetic genealogy lists, message boards, and blogs for tips and hints.
General ConsiderationsThis post isn't going to go into specifics of how to do cousin baiting. Here are general considerations. Using message boards is probably the easiest approach so consider starting there. If you already know how to create a blog or website, that is the most customizable method.
Make sure you are courteous and ethical. Genealogists that don't want to share have usually been burned by someone that was discourteous and/or unethical. Every day there are also new online trees created to help those using DNA. Many people are trying DNA because they don't know who a close ancestor is. They may not want to share the details with you, a stranger. Being courteous and ethical is good practice no matter the situation. It's also just the right thing to do, whether in genealogy or not.
The digital realm of genealogy today makes cousin baiting much easier. Yet many people don't even consider the concept, not to mention being unaware of the term. If you want to get in touch with cousins, even distant cousins, learn more about cousin baiting.
There's now a printable "Cousin Baiting Worksheet" in the Resource Library! This worksheet will help you consider which cousins you are interested in connecting with and outline a strategy to do it.
Do you have questions about cousin baiting or a success story to share? Leave a comment!